Joe Cook
by
Darrell E. Hamilton
Joseph Rhoderic Cook Jr. was born in Ashtabula on December 9, 1924 to Joseph & Clara Sachli Cook on December 9, 1924.
Joe's ancestors were early settlers in Ashtabula settling on North Ridge East about where the Ashtabula Mall sits now in 1806.
When Joe was born, his father was an attorney who had his office in the old Cook Arcade on Main Avenue. Joe had two older sisters with Joe being the youngest. His mother was from Erie, Pennsylvania.
Joe grew up in the Harbor at 1123 Walnut Blvd. He has very fond memories of his childhood. Joe talked about the stores in the Harbor, the Lift Bridge, sledding down Walnut Hill in the winter time, watch-ing the Ashtabula Car Ferry come in every day and visiting the Coast Guard Station.
At the Coast Guard Station, the men there would often let him walk out to their look out point with them at the end of the dock. They would often let Joe do small tasks for them such as punch the clock for them. The coast guard station fascinated Joe. Often Joe and his friends, which he mentioned by name, would go down to the Harbor and make a day out of it. According to Joe, the Harbor was a different place then. There were a lot more stores on Bridge Street plus the old Harbor Theater. The ships were different plus there was numerous fishing boats at the Harbor at one time. Fishing was a big industry at the Harbor when Joe grew up.
Joe attended Jackson Elementary School through the seventh grade. He then attended Harbor High School from eighth grade where he graduated in 1942. While in was in school, Joe delivered news-papers for the Cleveland Plain Dealer.
There are two childhood memories that Joe wish he didn't have. One day his childhood friends came by and wanted Joe to go with them on one of their excursions to the Harbor and play follow the leader. However, Joe was in the middle of doing some yard work and his father wouldn't let him go unless the yard work was completed. His friends went on without him. James Ramsey, one of Joe's best friends was the leader that day. On the way to the Harbor that day, they stopped off at the water works. Had Joe had been with the group that day, Joe would been right beside or right behind the Ramsey boy because they were such good friends. It's a good thing his father didn't let Joe go that day. Jack Ramsey climbed the transformer that day at the water works. He didn't get very far when he was electrocuted to death. The death of his friend devastated Joe and the incident bother-ed Joe for years. According to the look in Joe eyes, it still bothers him today. Joe was ten years old at the time.
Joe's father, actually was Joe Cook Jr. Joe was actually Joe Cook the third and called Junior when he was at home.
Joe's father was a very busy attorney. He had ran for federal office and had been very active in the community. The family did not get to see him as often as they would have liked to. One day when Joe was fourteen years old, Joe, his mother and two sisters sat down to the dinning room table to dinner. While they were eating, Joe's father grasped his chest. Before any help could arrive, Joe's father died in his chair. He was forty-seven years old. Joe stated that he could hear the "death rattle".
After Joe's father death, his mother had considered moving back to Erie to be closer to her family. She however, decided to stay in Ash-tabula and let the children finish school in Ashtabula.
While in high school, Joe worked for Broughton Beverage for two summers. One summer he worked at Geneva-on-the Lake. In high school, Joe was manager of the basketball team, played in the band and participated in various extra curricular activities.
War had broke out and Joe was drafted right after high school into the Army. Joe's sisters, Marjorie and Ruth were already in
college. Joe's mother had insisted that her three children would receive good education. However, Joe's education would have to wait until after his three years of service with the Army was completed.
After Joe got out of the Army, his mother had already moved to Erie to live with her sister. Joe moved to Erie and attended Gannon University in Erie and graduated with a degree in business. He later worked for Chef-boy-ar-dee out of Cleveland in sales and later worked his way up to management. His job kept him on the move for many years.
Joe's first wife was from Erie. He had one son, Joe Cook IV, nick-named Rodney, who was born in Buffalo in 1949.
The last place he lived before moving back to Ashtabula was New York City. Joe visited Ashtabula quite frequently over the years. While was on a visit to Ashtabula in 1986, Joe became concerned over the poor condition of the Harbor. He called one of his friends in Ashta-bula and a meeting was set up. Joe came to Ashtabula and proposed the Harbor Coalition. It was accepted on the spot. Joe promised to come back to Ashtabula every month to help. He went back to New York and completed surveys for the Harbor. Finally Joe realized that the time was right to move back to Ashtabula.
Joe had meet Alice Cook, his present wife in New York City. During the Harbor Days Festival, a drawing was held for a basket. Joe put Alice's name on a ticket. Alice won and Joe called her in New York City and told her that she had won. He also told her that if she wanted it, she had to come and get it. Well, one thing lead to another and they now have been married for fourteen years.
Joe had a lot of interesting stories to tell. Because of limited space, this is only a short sketch of Joe's life.
I have interviewed numerous people in the past few months on video. Itis my wish that these edited tapes can be preserved in the Ashtabula Municipal "Museum" for future generations to share.
Joe quite simply is a good and decent man just like his father. I could have listened all day instead of the two and half hours that I taped of Joe. If you have any comments to Joe, phone him at 478-4021.
In parting, Joe wants to leave the people of northeastern Ohio these words of wisdom:
"Don't give up on yourself or others. Keep to your perspectives and beliefs. Trust in God."
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